QUALITY over QUANTITY

QUALITY > QUANTITY

Almost everyone will agree that QUALITY is way more superior than quantity but paradoxically very few people REALISE it !

No worries.

Those who haven't realize ,I'm here to help.

Just quickly answer,

How many followers do you have on your social platforms?

Let's assume about 1000. okay?

Now, how many of them do you really know as a person?

500? Or even less?

Well, how many of them are really in touch with you like talking every now and then, asking whereabouts of each other, reacting to stories, etc, on an average 80 to 100.

Now, whenever you feel happy, sad, excited who is your go-to-person? Who stands by you no matter what? Who not only cares to listen but also understands? You might be thinking about your best buddies. Right?

That's the point I am trying to drive home, THE QUALITY !

Those 5-7 people in your life are your real assets which will never depreciate by time

We refer them as FRIENDS or Extended FAMILY !

One needs to understand that, its about nurturing a few real gems than collecting useless stones!

What I mean here is instead of giving attention to your virtual following, rather than entertaining them with reels and stories, start investing time on your real family and friends.

What I've observed is many people chase quantity, they crave attention from everybody in that process they end up loosing themselves which creates huge mess in their lives.

The Truth is You can not count on everyone. Similarly YOU CAN NOT TRUST EVERYONE.

'Everyone can't be special for you ;

You can't be special for everyone.'

Social life is meant to be something aside from your real life but people like it the other way round They treat their reel life as real life and their followers as their well-wishers, and unknowingly Share delicate details about life with them without knowing one's intensions.

Why to waste your time , energy and feelings on those whom you hardly know?

Why to make efforts just to fit in?

Why to trust someone without knowing them?

Why you need Quantity of people just to feel surrounded and not alone?

I personally have just 5-6 friends okay to be more precise just 3 best friends and trust me they mean the world to me. I don't need to change myself just to fit in with them. I can be myself there. I Receive unconditional love, support ,care everything without even asking.

Choose those who force you to better yourself.

We hear lot of cases about getting betrayed, cheated, broken trusts and so on.

Because the fear of being alone force some people to blindly trust the strangers on social media, then they not only let them be their follower but also let them play with their life by sharing every nuance. And end up receiving that blind trust as broken one.

So can't we be a little bit more conscious about choosing our QUANTITATIVE QUALITY People who genuinely care about us and knows us inside out.

Let them make efforts to earn your trust, don't go on distributing it for free to everyone

REMEMBER: It's about nurturing you real Gems, than collecting useless stones!!!"

Thanks for reading :)

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