choose for youself !

you know, I was just wondering is it just me, who is behaving abnormal these days or the whole world started going bananas already !

Everyone around me constantly striving for getting noticed, being updated with latest trends, catching up with the latest series; trying things in bandwagon and then captioning  it "by me" "my art", getting dressed for no reason(facepalm !) my bad, for Insta post of course ! swiping left/right on tinder in quest of their temporary soulmates, portraying themselves as a chef in the name of snap stories and strikes.

Crazy, isn't it?

 

In a nutshell, they've lost themselves to the developers and became a product who is helping those developers become billionaires !

I, on the other hand, standing still watching these very same people losing their interest in Reality and unknowingly bonding with Virtual reality.

I feel bad saying this that :

"Nowadays, people don't consume the internet, it's the internet that consumes people ! "

I may sound like but I'm not pulling someone up on something, not berating anyone either.

To be honest I've been there, I know exactly how it feels, but last few years were the game changers for me.

I quarantined my mind in the fear of getting positive of depression, unreasonable anxiety, fret that social media comes with.

I realized I was harming myself emotionally so I chose to get back to my consciousness (my old audience know it already how I managed to withdraw, I've alluded that experience in brief)

and now, while people around me making reels on 'tere najron ne dil ka kiya jo hashar, runaway Arora, stupid slow motions, I on the other hand sit on my terrace and relish the warm sunset with cold breeze watching birds chirping and watering roses and lilies while sipping Hot Chocolate.

when people scroll their feeds endlessly I, on the other hand, stroll near by park and witness the serenity of nature.

More strolling and Less scrolling ! 

while people torture themselves with comparing, criticizing, and complaining every damn thing on earth , I on the other hand, train my mind to inculcate compassion, care, collaboration with positive outlook.

when people around me busy chitchatting, gossiping over phones I, on the other hand, get indulge for hours in reading books and articles.

people who know me, know that I was not this way at all.

It's the choices that I made back in time , made me "ME" today.

It's not a overnight thing, you got to build yourself each and every moment, endure those withdrawal symptoms of being antisocial, have an unflinching attitude towards life, Trying myriad things that you are good at, and trust me when you overcome it, there's no going back!

Tell yourself that you do not have FOMO, you have JOMO i.e. joy of missing out !

yeah.. you read that right!

joy of missing out from social media, joy of missing of from intoxication, joy of missing out from temporary hookups, joy of missing out from poisonous web!

though the world is upgrading every second you need not fret over catching up everything, you need not to envy anyone , you need not to compare your profile with anyone's. you need not to be better than anyone. you are perfect just the way you are.

you can choose to relax and have a chai under the sky .

you need not to know every trend, upcoming series, apps, or anything.

KNOW YOURSELF FIRST!

KNOW WHAT YOU LOVE DOING!

KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOOD AT!

SPEND TIME WITH YOURSELF (without phone)

I promise you'll thank yourself for it !

WE ARE ALL LIKE THE BRIGHT MOON;
WE STILL HAVE OUR DARKER SIDE.

TO WALK IN NATURE IS TO WITNESS A THOUSAND MIRACLES!

have a good day :)

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